Sunday, October 2, 2011

The Most ROCKING Head-Shaving Party Ever!!

Oh did we have fun last night! We laughed, we cried, (OK, only I cried), we ate lots of sugary treats and made a big mess of Northwest Children's School. So I've gotten a"head" of myself. I'll start at the beginning.


This is me with hair.  I decided to make a party out of a potentially bummer part of going through cancer:  LOSING HAIR.  We had the party at NW Children's School here in Arlington.  My friend Cathy owns the school and Tari is a teacher there, and they were kind enough to let us completely take over Tari's classroom for the night.  Tari's friends Amanda and Tyler, who work at Salon Chirella, volunteered their time and expertise shaving and providing pink hair extentions to anyone who wanted them.  They did this on Tyler's birthday, which was so kind of them both!


This got a little emotional for me, more than a few tears rolled down my cheeks here. 


It was over pretty quickly, then it was Trudy's turn.


I had maybe a little too much fun giving her a comb-over, and she was such a good sport about it!


Trudy's husband, Jeremy had to help a little too.


Tari getting shaved by Cathy.


Susan is getting her hair chopped for Locks of Love. (Trudy did too, but I don't have a pic)


Well, here are the new and improved Mower Sisters!  I still can't believe this.


Angry at the world.


The 5 bald ladies: Susan, Trudy, Me, Tari, and Jamie.  I felt so SUPPORTED!  I'm glad to not have to gone through this alone.  Doesn't my leg up make it look like we're having fun?!  Always works.


We surprised Tyler with a birthday cake and a loud rousing version of "happy birthday to you!"  I'm sure he was exhausted, but he didn't even pause to eat cake.  Too many heads to shave!


Ellie loves feeling my head!  I was worried that she'd be freaked out about it, but she's ok.  I think she likes it!  Poor baby has an ugly scab on her nose.  Alfy's accident.  Couldn't be helped.


Trevor and Travis getting shaved... Well, almost.  Trev had big plans for his head. 


Well, Isaac surprised us all and requested a mohawk!  He was surrounded by a bunch of his friends who were all doing similar things with their hair.  White trash?  Perhaps.  Fun?  Definitely.  I told Isaac he could wear his mohawk to school ONE time, then it was coming off!  ;) 


Yes, Cavin did it too! It was CRAZY last night.  I had no control over what may or may not have happened.


Trev is thinking to himself, "I don't feel PINK enough".


Now, that's better!


What a fun night it was, and there was so much more going on than I had pictures of.  Almost every woman and girl present got pink streaks dyed in their hair, or had pink extrentions put in.  Most of the men and boys ended up either bald or with some sort of pink mohawk style on top.  Probably a million plates of cookies were consumed.  Most of all it was fun being surrounded by friends and family during such an important night for me.  The doctor told me that before my hair falls out on it's own, my scalp would get tender and feel like I just took out a tight pony tail.  Well, my head felt like that all day on Saturday.  Perhaps a little reassurance that this was the right day to do the hair party?




17 comments:

kelsey said...

You were not the only one crying! Thanks for letting us be part of your journey. You are the best!

Goings on at the Glenn's said...

looks like you guys had fun. Sad I missed it! :( you look beautiful even bald! And i'm not just saying that to make you feel better. you really do.

Clint said...

What a wild and crazy party! Looks like you had a blast and you all look sooo sexy bald.

You have such an awesome spirit Lauren and will kick this into the next universe.

Let's get together soon!

Love - Clint

Garnet said...

It's the only way to do it. Surrounded by friends and laughing through your tears. Such a great memory for such a traumatic experience! So proud of you Laurie!

C-L said...

I'm glad to see you are still doing the whole "angry at the world" bit :) Wish I could be there to do it with you. Although not sure I could shave my head. :) You sure have great friends and family. YOu are the best!

Melissa Howard said...

Laurie! You look beautiful!!!! I wish I was closer, I would have totally been there - pink and all! I love you and am sooo enjoying your blog posts;) You're in my prayers! -Missy Howard

Hammond Family said...

Looks like a fun evening!!! We were so worn out last night we just settled in at home and watched a movie with the kids. And now this morning I'm glad we didnt come last night because I have a head cold/ upper resp. thing coming on. I dont want to get you sick! Im so glad you are feeling better. There is always hope for a better day! Love you guys!

Melissa and Jeff said...

Wow, I wish I could have been there! I would have been HIGHLY tempted to shave my head, too, although Jeff may have put a stop to that - I don't think I have the same beautiful heads you girls have! Trevor looks great with the pink. So glad you have an incredible support "group" up there with you. Love you tons. - Miss

Anonymous said...

It was so much fun, Laur! Let's do it again sometime. I woke up feeling ashamed that I didn't think to help clean up. I hope Tari doesn't hate me. I'm crocheting her a hat as "thanks" for letting us tear up her space.

PS. did you sleep in a hat last night? I had to. Soo cold!

kdsmomma said...

AMAZING! You are facing this "head" on with so much strength and courage. If we lived anywhere close by, we would totally have been there shaving right along with you. You are loved from the Adam Hammond Family greatly!

Kwint and Gina Kemp Family said...

Yep, crying over here too. I am so amazed that your family and friends were willing to shave their heads too. AWESOME!!! Trudy and Susan are the best sisters in the world!

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Linne Haywood said...

Lauren,
Your attitude toward cancer is a blessing to all who know you or even hear of you. Love you and your spirit.

Linne

Dacie said...

Wow Laurie! My first thought... You Mower girls look HOT! I think this look might stick. I'm so proud of all of you. Looks like an amazing party! Love you soo soo much!

AmyWilli said...

You guys look great!! I love the pink on Trevor! It looks like it was a great time!

Alex and Heather said...

Aw Laurie! I'm soo sad that we missed it. But, you rock that new look. That's right, don't mess with this Digga! Love you girl!

happychow said...

Candi and I had big plans to come. Sorry we missed it all- we love you so much Laurie- you are so strong and such an amazing woman! You look beautiful, as always. Trudy and Susan- you are amazing. Love to you all!!